A Nigerian lady, Ugochi, has resorted to social media to share her experience with her ex-boyfriend and expressed her thoughts on how women may get over failed relationships.
Ugochi revealed that her boyfriend dumped her because she played the role of a wife instead of staying as a girlfriend.
She stated that sometimes men do not dump their lovers because the love was not enough but for the reason that their lovers lavished them with love.
Sharing on the app, Ugochi said, “After my ex boyfriend served me breakfast, I was surprised because I thought I was doing all the things I was supposed to be doing as a great girlfriend”.
“But after sometime, I started seeing all the things I was doing wrong when I was with him. Ladies, sometimes, men dump you not because you are not loving him enough but because you are loving him too much!”
“I realized I was playing the role of a wife instead of a girlfriend and that’s what got me dumped! If you are a girlfriend, you have no business playing the role of a wife. I was doing too much 🤦🏽♀️💔”.
Social media users reacted to the tweep as many expressed their thoughts about the situation.
See her post below:
After my ex boyfriend served me breakfast, I was surprised because I thought I was doing all the things I was supposed to be doing as a great girlfriend but after sometime, I started seeing all the things I was doing wrong when I was with him. Ladies, sometimes, men dump you not— ugochi (@Ugochifine) June 22, 2022
Some reactions generated are shown below:
@_therealade said, “I don’t think men dump you for doing too much. Because what exactly is doing too much?? Maybe man dumped you for other stupid reasons but I doubt if it’s for doing too much.”
@mentalgod_ said, “He dumped you. He didn’t need you acting like a wife cause he wasn’t going to settle down with you. A man that loves you will never think you’re doing too much. Last Last….”
@OkSydney said, “This lady spoke an unusual truth. Don’t counter it. It’s not a rule btw. But most men don’t need a wife role when you are supposed to be a girlfriend. It exposes the lady to being manipulated & used by dependent pussified males.”
@chieffybi said, “Men break up with ladies for many reasons, but certainly not for “doing too much.” What does doing too much involves sef? Maybe he didn’t see a future with you, or he stopped loving you, or someone else came into the picture; but I doubt if it’s because you were doing too much.”
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