Taking to her verified Instagram page to mourn the late singer, the mother of one advised women in abusive relationships to leave and not wait until something bad happens to them.
She told women who have refused to leave their toxic partners because they hope that their husbands will change and come to love them someday, that such hope dies when women die in such relationships.
She noted that a woman is not a perfectionist and it is okay to say no, say they are tired, and cry out for help.
“Woman, thou art loosed! (Luke 13:12) You have a right to say no. It is your right to be tired. You can put your hands in the air, Cry for help if you have to; Say no even if the world can’t reason with you. Because, in the grave they still will not. Don’t wait until death comes.
In anticipation for a pity party. Death is the end of hope. Are you hoping he would come to love you and respect you, stop mentally ,emotionally and physically abusing you?
If you die, that’s where hope ends. Call for help, nobody is a saint. We are all work in progress.
Are you a perfectionist and you want the world to keep seeing the perfect side of you? Stop playing God. Let God be God and man be man. Accept that it can’t work, if it won’t work . We always know it when it can’t. Finally, quit seeking validation. May the soul of the departed rest in peace Her song ministered to me alot of times and even now i say Ekueme!!!!!!! Rest my lady rest!”